THE IGBO & FUNERALS (10)

I just returned from the homeland where I’d gone with other members of our town union to attend the funeral of a member and former executive of the women wing of our town union. This one was particular important for me because it involved the burial of widow, who had no child for her late […]

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JAPA STATE OF AFFAIRS

Migration is as old as mankind. It must be that once man realised himself, he simply moved, even if it was for no just cause besides curiosity. Today, most of us live in places different from where our parents once lived, sometimes to be reunited with them, only in death with what is left of […]

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AJỌFIA AND OUR FADING CULTURE AND TRADITION

Once a while, the conversation around tradition and westernisation arises amongst Africans. With my Igbo friends the topic could be so emotive that had most of these conversations not been on social media, we could as well be exchanging blows. I posted the video of the “dreaded” Ajọfia masquerade sometime ago, on a WhatsApp platform […]

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AIDING DESTINY

“A person often meets his destiny on the road he took to avoid it.” ― Jean de La Fontaine.   I have been at this point in my life for a while, where the road forks, and I’m to decide between pushing the hands of destiny, or allowing fate play her hands as she wills. […]

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KISLEV 9 – 46

Another opportunity for reflections have come upon me, the importance of which is never lost on me. With each passing day I learn a thing or two about life, and it is so much that I wonder how ninety year olds (or more) feel with the knowledge garnered over the years, simply just by living […]

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ISRAEL, HAMAS, PALESTINIANS & ARMAGEDDON

The fable is told of the Tortoise whose greed led him to steal porridge from his in-law’s kitchen when he paid them a visit. His father-in-law him tied him up to a tree, such that people on their way to work, who saw the tortoise and inquired about what happened, berated and hurled insults at […]

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TENT

The feast of tabernacles is one of those feasts that leave me wondering which really is my best feast. Truly, Jewish feasts aren’t meant in any way to be loved one over another, but each time I glean into the significance of this feast I cannot but help thinking it the best. Well, until passover […]

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KEFFI VACATION

I haven’t been in the North for a while now. Five years should be approximately the last time I visited. Each time I travel to the North though, I encounter something new, which is not unusual seeing as the longest I’ve stayed, apart from the long periods of visits to my uncles and the one […]

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STILL A WORK IN PROGRESS @12

I had once mentioned that I couldn’t say we were in such a place that I could begin to offer advice as a marriage counselor, but having been at the business for twelve years, I was almost tempted to do so as my offering for this anniversary. What stopped me were the many maxims I […]

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